June 21, 2010

Traditional Weddings Customs: Russian Brides

Traditional Russian weddings are much different from what we are used to in the United States. Rehearsals, flower girls, and wedding planners aren't required for this special kind of ceremony. Even so, if you're planning to be one of the traditional Russian brides you're sure to have a magical day. Here are few things you should expect.

The wedding celebration in a traditional Russian wedding often lasts for at least two days. In some cases it can stretch on for even longer. There is no best man or maid of honor. These people are simply known as witnesses, or in Russian "svideteli".

Some things in traditional Russian marriages are the same as in American ones. One of these things is the time it takes to put the wedding together. A Russian wedding can take between one and six months. The marriage registration takes place in a "Zags" as opposed to our American courthouses.

There are many gifts exchanged for weddings. One of the traditional ones is a gift of salt and bread. This is presented to the couple by their parents and is representative of a hope for prosperity, long lives, and health.

When the couple is given these gifts they are expected to take as big a bite as they can. This is much like in America where we take the first bites of wedding cake. Only, with Russian tradition the individual who takes the biggest bite of this special bread is considered to be the head of the household.

Another custom that we have in the States that is also used in the traditional Russian weddings is toasts. Toasts are where a friend or relative stands up and says something about the newly formed couple. After that a drink is shared by the entire room as a sort of well wishing.

In Russian tradition once a toast is made the glasses are thrown on the floor. If the glasses break when they hit the ground it is believed to be good luck. However, if the shards draw blood this may be considered a bad omen, so, just like in marriage you have to know when to put force, how much, and you have to take careful aim before you toss anything!

Krazha Nevesty means "stealing the bride". This is just what you think it would be. It is one of the most interesting customs within the traditional Russian wedding. The bride can be snatched up if the groom is not paying close attention to her!

During the wedding celebrations friends and family members of the groom will often set up elaborate schemes in order to snatch his beloved. He has to stay on his toes! If he loses his bride he is then forced to pay a ransom for her return.

There are many things to remember when you are planning to be one of these Russian brides. With all of the differences in wedding styles and all the hard work and gathering it can be easy to lose sight of your goal. Just remember that this is your day and you should be happy. After all, you're about to get married!

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